Before you get the idea that I’m just carelessly throwing advice around out there, I should probably tell you a little about myself. I am definitely not a marriage counselor or therapist, so I don’t have a fancy piece of paper on my wall. My education was earned by living through a horrible marriage, facing a near divorce, and ultimately saving the marriage. These days my relationship with my wife is much better the day we were got married.

You can save your marriage too!

The primary thing you have to do is not play the “blame game.” There is no point in spending time blaming either yourself or your spouse for the problems you are facing. The primary goal at this point MUST be to save your marriage! It does not matter who did what to whom.

Next, you will need to get yourself out of the bad emotional condition you are currently in. If you are experiencing any combination of anger, fear, jealousy, shock, depression, hurt or confusion then you are NOT in the resourceful condition you need to be in to do what needs to be done.

You should commit yourself entirely to saving your marriage from the end, REGARDLESS of what your spouse is doing. You must be calm and rational and by all appearances remain confident understanding and patient (even if you don’t necessarily feel all those things on the inside)

With every action there is a reaction! When you save and do some very specific things, you can definitely alternate the dynamics of your marriage and set it out on a brand new course, even if your mate is not doing anything right now.

And finally, you have got to realize that NOTHING will change if you don’t take the steps to do something about it! Time is not on your side and the longer you wait, the less your chances of turning your marriage around.

My better thinking and most sincere desire to save my marriage nearly ruined it and I did not even know it. It wasn’t until I found out what I had been doing wrong and made some changes did I begin to see the relationship change. Again, this is not about either of you being right or wrong. It really is not about the both of you at all! It is about the marriage.

There are a lot of effective things you can do to stop your marriage from falling apart. When it comes to Saving A Marriage the techniques you will find on the next page can provide you with the advice and info you need to assist the situation you’re going through Click Here.

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If you are a Christian, it is important for you to understand that you have been created in God’s very image according to Genesis 1:27 which states, “And God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male AND female He created them.” You are beautiful person and should always hold your head up high.

One Christian company that understands this is Beauty 4 Ashes Christian Health & Beauty Co. They are using the Word of God to set millions of people free from the bondage of low self-esteem. Their hair care products for ethnic and non-ethic hair only contain natural ingredients produced by God’s green earth.

This company is growing fast and quickly gaining international acclaim for their heavy usage of scriptures and God’s word with all of their products. The company is also unique because it takes no credit for the amazing results its customers receive from their hair growth and acne products. Instead, they give all credit for any customer success to the power of God to heal those who dedicate their lives to His perfect will and way.

If you are a Christian, you should use your dollars to support Christian companies that spread the word of God openly. Although, there are many Christian nonprofit organizations that exist, there are few for profit organizations that openly proclaim the power of Jesus Christ and do not fear losing profits by marginalizing it customer base. Beauty 4 Ashes is one of these companies.

If you have dry, brittle, or damaged hair, you should try their GodHead Silky Smooth products, if you have eczema, acne, or stretch marks, then you should try their “No More Shame” products, and if your have hair growth needs, you should try their “A Double Portion” super hair growth product. Please visit this company’s website at http://www.discoverb4a.com

Christians, recognize that as Paul said in Acts 17:29, we serve an awesome and mighty living God, not one of gold, silver, or stone. If you are battling with hair care and skin care issues, you need to place your faith in the Word of God and not chemicals, surgery, or facial peels to get quick results. If you just remain faithful and devote your life completely to Him, He will reward you for your obedience.

For the bible states that God is a rewarder of those who seek him diligently and the bible also states that if you delight yourself in him, he will provide you with the desires of your heart. If you really believe these words are true, then exercise patience and continue to exercise full faith in the unchanging word of God. Beauty 4 Ashes Christian Co., Lifeway Ministries, Chick-fil-a, and Zondervan Publishing are just a few companies who are not afraid to stand on the power of God when operating their companies. So let’s support these companies!

God has given every man and woman free will. Use your free will to show what the love of Jesus Christ looks like to your fellow man. Use your free will to volunteer, to help others in nursing homes or homeless shelters. Use your free will to support the few Christian companies, such as Beauty 4 Ashes Christian Co. who promote the word of God internationally, without fear or the repercussions from other religions, companies, countries, or individuals. Remember, you are made in the image of God. Your actions need to always reflect that fact.

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The Awesome thing is.. We complain about the cross we bear but don’t realize it is
preparing us for the dip in the road that God can see and we cannot.

Whatever your cross, whatever your pain, there will always be sunshine,
after the rain…. Perhaps you may stumble, perhaps even fall; But God’s
always ready, to answer your call…. He knows every heartache, sees every
tear, a word from His lips, can calm every fear… Your sorrows may linger,
throughout the night, But joy comes in the early morning… Jesus is waiting,
somewhere above, to give you His grace, and send you His love.

1 Corinthians 13:6-7 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
Beareth all things, believeth all things, hope all things, endureth all things.

May God fill your night and days as you rest in His arms with blessings!!
Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of
battle.. there in the mind.. I’m praying for you my sister’s and my brother’s….

Be Abundantly Blessed!
Elder-Elect Corvalis G. Hodges

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