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5 Basic Needs of a Wife
by Pastor on Mar.06, 2010, under Marriage, Relationship
5 Basic Needs of a Wife
By Rodney D. Robertson
Copyright © 2010.
Men, today I want to give you some knowledge that can give you the edge in your relationship. If you can meet these 5 basic needs of your wife, you will witness an awesome turn around in your marriage and bedroom. If you can submit to her need, she’ll submit to your lead.
#1 Need of the Wife: Affection
Women are emotionally stimulated. They need non-sexual affection. Lovemaking doesn’t just start when you go to bed at night. Lovemaking begins when you open your eyes in the morning showing your wife affection throughout the day.
Nonsexual affection: Speak kind words (verbally, texting, emailing, and greeting cards) soft touches, caressing her, holding her hands, opening the door for her, flowers, etc. Note: Find out what she likes and work it.
#2 Security
Every wife wants security. Two areas specifically are relationally and financially. She wants to know that you are present in the relationship and that you will take care of her and the children (if you have any).
#3 Conversation
We love to think things out internally; however, women love to talk things out. One thing specifically she wants to know during the conversation is that you are listening. Meaning, ask questions and every now and then nod your head and say, “That’s interesting.” (LOL)
#4 Honesty
Honesty means that everything you say must be true, not that everything true must be said. Speak the truth in love.
#5 Commitment
With commitment she wants to know that you are committed to her and the family. You are in it to win and for the long haul. Divorce is not an option.
Building lasting relationships,
Rodney D. Robertson
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